Time is in short supply. There are many things that are okay, aren't sin, aren't harmful. There are things that can be used for good. But are they worthwhile? (And yes, I'm spending time on this... because writing out my thoughts helps me think)
I'm stuck on Facebook. I've taken a break from it twice this year already. And it just keeps coming to mind. I have excuse after excuse for why I don't delete it completely. There are good things that come from Facebook. I share pictures with family and friends far away. I claim I get to know people better through Facebook. I say I get to encourage and educate other moms of cranio kids. I say I get to find out prayer requests.
But what is Facebook causing me to miss out on? Because everything I chose to do means I'm choosing not to do something else.
So when I log on, what am I saying "no" to? Cleaning. I don't have a dishwasher, and saying I'm "waiting on the washer and dryer" is a joke, because in this house there is ALWAYS laundry to be put away. Reading, either quality books for myself or reading to my children. Playing with my children, or paying attention to them at all. Praying. Studying Scripture. Meditating on a hymn. Giving serious thought to anything. Cooking. Exercising. Managing money.
What am I saying "yes" to? I can encourage people on Facebook. I can see prayer requests and say a short (distracted) prayer. I can gossip. I can come across harsh and judgmental. I can get irritated, or stressed, or worried about the way other people live and raise their children, or the viewpoints of others, or their opinions of me. I can be encouraged and held accountable for healthy living.
"Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things."
Does Facebook fit this definition? Does what I read, and what I post, follow the command of this verse? If I'm honest... no. I can pretty much count on one hand the people on my "friends" list who spurn me on to a better life, whose posts, shares, and comments fit the qualifications of that verse.
It's pretty clear to me that I need to make changes. Intentional, flexible, focused...